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Man Feelings

This episode, Touly talks about how NOT talking about personal issues causes MORE problems than none. 
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just try it out.....9 to 930

Toulons talk about therapy, it’s benefits, and reasons why a person would need a sex therapist and being a partner & not a parent to your spouse.

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The Hazing

From beginning to now, to show that all relationships don’t start off like the fairy tale you may expect.

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An act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important or worthy.
Being in Gods favor. showing that same grace towards your love one.

A feeling of intense enthusiasm towards or compelling desire for someone or something.

The quality of being dedicated or committed to a task or purpose. Being dedicated to the relationships and all it entails.


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Can you see yourself getting married one day? Or maybe you’ve considered a forever relationship – or already in one? Then Jump into the Trenches with the Toulons!

About Jonathan

Jonathan also goes by Touly, Toulon or JT is a recovering serial dating F’Boy turned successful IT BOSS, husband and father. The social butterfly of the duo, Touly loves to have a good time, travel and be in the company of friends and family. Also a member of the Mu Psi chapter of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc and graduate of the illustrious North Carolina Agricultural and Technical State University where he obtained a degree in Computer and Information Technology.



About Ralphiel

Ralphiel also goes by Ralph, is the aggressive quick witted, smart mouth, silly around the clock geechee gyal turned wife and mother of doing the MOST! Also known as Extra to the mediocre community, #Shade. The super analytical mompreneur can handle anything that comes her way except for pork & bullsh*t. She loves true crime podcast and documentaries, bravo reality tv shows, crafts, and attending YouTube University.

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